Post by Dr.Farzan on Mar 29, 2005 7:35:52 GMT -5
The foremost reason for a conflict is the shifting of the blame to the other. Own the responsibility, if the fault is yours. This very attitude it self will create an amiable atmosphere. When we approach a problem with this frame of mind, we find it easier to come up with a solution. We always try to prove how wrong the other is. If you think the other person is wrong, look at the problem from the other person’s perspective. Then you may conclude differently. Another key element that causes a strained relationship is argument between two. In an argument, both sides try to prove how wrong the other is. This finally results in seriously straining relationships. This scenario can be avoided by mutual discussions. Always, discussions are healthier than arguments. When decisions are taken, we have to ensure that more emphasis is given to love than on logic